Book Report: What to Say When You Talk To Yourself by Shad Helmstetter, Ph.D

You know that saying, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” It’s true, especially when you talk to yourself.

What?! You don’t talk to yourself?!

I bet you do, most of us do. The question is, what are we telling ourselves and does it make a difference in the overall scheme of things.

According to the Bible, Proverbs 23:7, “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” And Luke 6:45, “For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.”

Proverbs 18:21 says, “The tongue has the power of life and death.” Are you speaking life into your life?

Even though I’m not 100% on board with everything Dr. Helmstetter says in his book, there are LOTS of good nuggets in here. I really like how he talks about why most “self help” books don’t work…because we aren’t consistent…there’s that word again. ūüôā

He talks about how we are given programming (like a computer) from different sources as we grow up, some good, some bad, and offers suggestions on reprogramming our “systems” in order to be more effective, healthy, successful, etc. I know that this has been true in my life, how I was as a child, what I believed about certain things has definitely changed over the years. And not always for the better. Making the time to be consistent, especially in prayer, is helping me to change some of those negative misconceptions I had about myself and about God specifically.

Dr. Helmstetter is also very thorough in helping you create specific affirmations to overcome some of these challenges and replace the negative “tapes” with positive ones. Chapter 8 is about the 5 steps of Self – Management that help control whether we succeed or fail. John Maxwell talks about this in several of his books as well, self-leadership. Here is a link to my Book Report on John’s book, Good Leaders Ask Great Questions. I have several other books on my list to read this year that are on the subject of mindset and self talk, so be watching for those reports as well.

I’ve combined what I learned from this book along with what I took away from Lara Casey and Terri Savelle Foy‘s books and I believe I’ve put together something that will help me take that next step mentally to creating “success” as it pertains to me and my life. I’ve put together a few videos and posts here on the blog about my system, here is a link to the first in the series in case you missed them.

Enjoy!!

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Health Tip: Simple Health System Part 3: The Secret Weapon

Due to many factors including those mentioned in Dr. Hyman’s quote here, we all need a little extra help. Our food supply just isn’t what it used to be, our life styles aren’t what they used to be either. Sure, you can get healthy by eating right and exercising…to some extent. But if you are doing those things and still not seeing the progress you’d like to be seeing, that you really HOPED you’d see, you might be missing the Secret Weapon for health.

There is no such thing as a magic pill for health, but there are definitely some key things we can add to our regular health routine (healthy mindset, healthy eating & healthy movement) to get to that next level. To see and feel those desired results. I bet you didn’t REALLY know how good you could feel until you found the right Secret Weapons. I know I didn’t!!

Here’s the thing…as American’s we are used to (and usually demand) easy, quick and effective. Right?

Ain’t nobody got time to go to the drug store, read every label (after first doing sufficient research at home on the best things to take, of course), fill our cart, and then our cabinets, with 80,000 bottles of who knows what…and then, on top of all that figure out the perfect dosage of each one of those 80,000 items will work best for us in combination with the rest….blah blah blah!!!

Keep it simple!! That’s the whole point of this Graceful Freedom thing!! ¬†Good grief! (side note: How many of us research every ingredient of EVERY thing we put into, or on, our bodies?! Not very many…and that’s part of the problem…sorry off topic, kind of.)

So, what are the Secret Weapons anyway?! Like Dr. Hyman mentions in the graphic above, there are some basic things that pretty much everyone needs. A good multi-vitamin, a good source of Omegas, Vitamin D and a good probiotic…I would add something to help support healthy glucose metabolism.

You say: But Yvonne, I don’t have time to, don’t want to, don’t know where to, research the billions of products out there…

I say: DUDE! Don’t just go taking anything, MAKE the time to do at least SOME research. Find out why these things are important. Google the link between gut health and whatever issue you are dealing with, the link between blood sugar and whatever you are dealing with, etc. Research the ingredients!! If one of the ingredients is Sucralose (or one of it’s AKA’s)…RUN!!! This is YOUR health we’re talking about!!

You say: BUT….I feel pretty good, I eat pretty well, I do all the things for health

I say: Sure, but how much BETTER could you feel if you added the Secret Weapon?!?! WHA!!!! I have a friend who ate REALLY clean, did ALL the things and still felt icky all the time, was gaining weight,¬†feeling old before her time. I’d love to tell you the rest of her story, but you’ll have to message me for the details. (Sorry I’m such a tease…)

ps I also say that there are lots of options out there (as previously mentioned), find someone who knows what they are doing to help you find what is best for you AND allow them to help you, guide you along the journey. I’d be happy to recommend some of my favorite resources to you as well. I know that my life has forever changed for the better by adding my particular Secret Weapons, and the best part is, they are simple and effective!! (If they weren’t…duh! I wouldn’t use them!)

pps Keep in mind…you did not get where you are in your health in 5 minutes…these types of products WILL NOT help get you back on track in that amount of time either. It’s like a dance, 2 steps forward, 1 step back. At least at the beginning, so be patient and stay the course!! That’s why I say to stay in contact with the person who helps get you started, they can help so much along the way!! If you let them.

pst!! Don’t forget about getting our FREE eBook on the whole Simple Health System. There are more details and tips to be found there! Sign up here¬†or in the sidebar to the right!

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Health Tip: Simple Health System Part 1 – Healthy Mindset

“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right.” – Henry Ford

“As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” Proverbs 23:7 KJV

“Oh Be careful little mouth, what you say.” Children’s song, author unknown

 


What we think and what we say has far reaching consequences and rewards. So the FIRST step toward improved health must be taken on the inside. There is a reason we say that we are getting healthy from the inside out. It’s so true!! What we think and say about ourselves, our “issues”, our appearance, etc. is part of creating that reality. Please notice that I said “PART.”

So if we think (or say) that something won’t work for us, it probably won’t. If we think that this is how life will always be, where we are sick and tired, we will always be sick and tired. If we decide, then think and say things like, “This is going to work! I feel better already!” Guess what, you WILL feel better already!

It’s not magic, or woowoo stuff. It’s a spiritual reality. We are told to speak life into the people and situations around us, why not speak life into our health?

I know that one of the things I struggle most with is my mindset. This is an area where I have spent a lot of time learning and growing…and I’m still learning and growing. Some parts of the month are easier than others…if you catch my drift. haha! But for the most part I’m making forward progress.

How much easier would it be to make healthy choices if I’m telling myself how much I love healthy foods!? My conscious mind might not believe me at first, but my subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference and will eventually help me convince that skeptical conscious mind that I really DO love healthy foods!

You’re challenge for the week is to write out a list of your negative self-talk, the things you say to yourself often, especially in regards to your health. Do you say things like, “This is killing me” or “That gets on my nerves” or maybe “I hate exercise and salad”? That’s part one, making that list. There is no room for “stinkin thinkin” on the road to a healthy life, in any aspect, whether you’re looking for health in your physical body, in your spiritual life, in your relationships, etc.

Part two is to write a positive statement that counters that negative statement. For instance, “I enjoy exercise because I know that it is helping me make myself better, healthier and stronger. I’m better able to do what God has called me to do when I am full of energy, and exercise helps me reach those goals.”

I’d love to hear your positive statements, share them in the comments below so we can cheer you on!!

We’ll be talking about this mindset thing a lot here on the blog. I also cover the entire Simple Health System in my eBook which you can get for FREE by signing up in the sidebar on the right. Check back soon for Part 2!

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