You know that saying, “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.” It’s true, especially when you talk to yourself.
What?! You don’t talk to yourself?!
I bet you do, most of us do. The question is, what are we telling ourselves and does it make a difference in the overall scheme of things.
According to the Bible, Proverbs 23:7, “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” And Luke 6:45, “For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.”
Proverbs 18:21 says, “The tongue has the power of life and death.” Are you speaking life into your life?
Even though I’m not 100% on board with everything Dr. Helmstetter says in his book, there are LOTS of good nuggets in here. I really like how he talks about why most “self help” books don’t work…because we aren’t consistent…there’s that word again. 🙂
He talks about how we are given programming (like a computer) from different sources as we grow up, some good, some bad, and offers suggestions on reprogramming our “systems” in order to be more effective, healthy, successful, etc. I know that this has been true in my life, how I was as a child, what I believed about certain things has definitely changed over the years. And not always for the better. Making the time to be consistent, especially in prayer, is helping me to change some of those negative misconceptions I had about myself and about God specifically.
Dr. Helmstetter is also very thorough in helping you create specific affirmations to overcome some of these challenges and replace the negative “tapes” with positive ones. Chapter 8 is about the 5 steps of Self – Management that help control whether we succeed or fail. John Maxwell talks about this in several of his books as well, self-leadership. Here is a link to my Book Report on John’s book, Good Leaders Ask Great Questions. I have several other books on my list to read this year that are on the subject of mindset and self talk, so be watching for those reports as well.
I’ve combined what I learned from this book along with what I took away from Lara Casey and Terri Savelle Foy‘s books and I believe I’ve put together something that will help me take that next step mentally to creating “success” as it pertains to me and my life. I’ve put together a few videos and posts here on the blog about my system, here is a link to the first in the series in case you missed them.
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